What`s the need for backbone?!!

BACKBONE... the most needed for the body to stand straight with pride.

Here, I personize backbone with all the support and help that people play in ones life.

A person is most likely to succeed when he has some genuine supporter. A person feels that even if he fails, there is someone who still values him, who still values his dreams and still wants him to give another try. 

Personally speaking, in my life I have had a very strong Back Hand, may it be my family, my friends, my teachers, or my relatives.  

I never felt that I am alone. Everyone around me always made me feel that I can make everything possible. They have always tried to enhance each and every skill inside me. 

In my blogs you are going to be introduced with same kind of incidents that I have seen or experienced which brought joy in my life just by looking at them. 

You might have experienced that just by showing up you can change someone`s mood and their vibe. It is very important how your attitude is towards someone for whom your opinion matters... Always try to be a helping hand, a guide to their darkness, a cherry on their cake. 

We all are familiar with the famous television show which was, I would rather say which is even famous today for it`s legendary comedy. But along with comedy it has brought up a very big and lovely element in front of us and that is SUPPORT. I am talking about the show "F.R.I.E.N.D.S". With 10 huge seasons it has showed us that how important it is to have a family. A group of people who truly matters, a group that supports you no matter what! 

     You cannot choose a favorite character from the show cause each and every character has its own way to show love and care towards his friends. That show is the best example of how friends should be(It`s must to watch the show). 

Most of the times it is also observed that the best cheer leaders are the ones who have had the same kind of dream but failed to succeed in their matter of time. The best example are our parents. We always observe that parents try to fulfill their child`s dream by hook or by crook because they feel that at least their child should be able to make the dream turn into reality. Not only my parents but also my friend`s parents feel that I should study and become something so that they can go in the society and tell that I am their second daughter. From this what I want to convey is that somebody`s success is somebody else`s happiness.

 A person should not only try to overcome his fears but also try to help someone to overcome the fears you have already faced before. For once you will forget that you have helped them, but they won`t. 

Nobody in this world forgets the helping hand that lead them towards their destination, towards zenith. The great Ashoka needed Chanakya to conquer, Akbar needed Birbal, Mahatma Gandhi needed Sardar Patel to succeed Champaran, then who are we? We are just the random, common person, we definitely need a BACKBONE. 

Even in todays world lucky are those girls whose parents feel that their daughters are equally important in their matter of choices, in the matter of their career choices. I just feel pride when the father of the daughter says that, "Meri chori, choro se kam hai kya?"  A girl in the Indian family can only succeed when she has direct or indirect support from her family, otherwise she has to cross the obstacle of getting out of the four walls, and that is a very long race to finish. Whenever you go out just observe the confidence of the girl who has full support of her family, and then observe the girl who has to struggle every single day even to get out of the house... People say that a human being is coffined in white cloth when they are dead. BUT I have seen girls die under the burden of the RED CLOTH AT THEIR WEDDINGS.  

"Be the reason for someone`s success chapter and when people look up to you, be very careful not to hurt their belief and trust in you, and that is what a BACKBONE does!"