In our life we always expect somebody to come, hold our hand and lead us to the place we want to. We always wait that someday somebody will come, motivate us, make us realize the things we can achieve. May it be our parents, teachers or friends, we are always in the constant search of a helping hand, or rather talking straight, we need a spoon feeder. Right from our childhood many of us are not even given the burden of making choices, it is the parents that takes almost all the decisions for us. And when we reach our teenage, we do not even have an option to choose, because it is the peer pressure that leads our decisions.
At the end of teenage, we start to realize that now it is going to be no one that is going to stand for you. I mean there will be people, your supporters, but they won`t spoon feed you anymore, or they won`t be present to clean your mess.
Many
a times in our life we stand at the point where no one understands us. We start
to feel lonely. We stand at the lowest, and yet there stands no one along us,
for us. When everybody laughs at us, there is only person who is going to take you
seriously, and that is you yourself. “Zindagi ka dangal khudko hi ladna padega,
warna maidan me pachad diye jaoge” Even God helps those who helps themselves.
It
is the fact that there will be no one when you struggle, you will have to stand
alone and fight. But when you succeed, everyone will come to take the credit,
let them.
Just do not quit just because there is no one there to measure your efforts, do not quit just because there is no one to tell people about your consistency. Work, work for yourself. Work for your happiness, leave all the expectations from others. Work hard for your dreams, for your stand in this competitive world. And please, just because someone is not able to see your talent you will try to prove to them, just do not! If someone is not able to see your talent, it is not your fault. They will eventually see it when you will shine equally brighter to the Sun one day. So just do not waste your energy in pleasing and proving the wrong crowd of the society, cause, no one really cares.
Motivational
videos will motivate you for a day or two. But the actual motivation must be you.
You must be your reason to stay consistent. Try to work so hard that one day
some body takes you as their role model, or rather after few years at some point
of your life when you look back and see your stand in the society, you should
feel proud about yourself, about the hard work you have put to improve
yourself.
You
are going to love yourself when you will reach the zenith. But I want to say
that, love yourself when you are your lowest too. Cause, if you will not take
care of yourself then who will? Human heart is a very sensitive part. We personify
our heart to our emotions, our feelings. Be as hard as rock for the society,
but be as soft as cotton to your heart.
At
the last I want to say that,
IF NOT NOW, THEN WHEN?
AND
IF NOT YOU, THEN WHO?
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